Well, you went and did something wrong and now she broke up with you. She didn’t leave you because some other man was hitting on her, it was because of the pre-existing issues that you had in your relationship with her. This is actually good news because it means that things can still be improved. There is still possibility that you could get your ex-girlfriend back if you take action now.

When you calm yourself down, be prepared to take a detailed analyze of what on earth has led to the final breakup in the last few months. Do not get caught up with blaming yourself for everything, concentrate on the beginning point of the breakup and try to trace it down to the core cause. What did you do that made her no longer want to be in a relationship with you any longer? Could you tell that a breakup was starting to loom on the horizon or did it just appear to come out of nowhere? Can you think of what the first thing was that began the breakup? You should keep the below tips in mind in order to bring your ex back. Try to think back to when the both of you first started dating and everything seemed so simple. Think back to when you first met each other and you were just new “friends” spending time together and enjoying getting to know each other.

This is essentially the type of guy you have to be. Bear in mind your ex fell deeply in love with you when you were happy and fun to be with.  Not while you were despondent and needy to get together with her. To win back her heart, you must be the man she fell for once more.

Take it slowly, and do not rush things. Deal with this as if you are just beginning to date someone new for the first time. Set up a coffee date. This comes across very laid-back and won’t make her feel like you are eager to get back together. When you encounter her talk about simple and entertaining stuff. Refrain from dealing with hard things such as your relationship. Have fun, make her giggle and recall the good times. Keep your conversation enjoyable and engaging, take a shot at flirting with her like she was a girl you recently met and want to get her attracted.

If this first coffee date goes well, keep on dating her. Once again, you should make sure that every time you go out with her, you are the same cheerful and laid-back guy that she fell for in the first place. This should not be difficult or complicated to do. In truth it is you, the genuine you. Use your charms just as you did when you started out going out in the beginning. Treat her like a lady and make certain that the two of you have a fantastic time.

Please don't beg her to take you back or anything. If you ever ask about the subject too soon, she could leave permanently. Do not forget, you aren’t the only one that has been hurt here. Your girlfriend very likely has some hurt of her own to manage. But it’s a great hint that she’s spending time with you. It implies that she has trust that both of you can make it in time and you have got a high probability to gain back her love. Tread slowly and gradually and be patient if she loves you and has thoughts of the happy times you shared, she will come back.

If this info helped you out, also check out how to win back her heart and my other winning back her heart blog post